As summer’s high temps continue to scorch us here on the east coast, I decided to share a couple great summertime thoughts especially for teens. The first is a great article from the New York Times for incoming high school juniors. Writer and Professor Daniel F. Chambliss offers some great tips for juniors as they spend this all-important summer preparing for the year that, in many ways, will largely determine whether and/or where they go to college. School counselors, too, may enjoy reviewing these tips. Next, an interesting study from the University of Zurich investigates why children, especially teens, may lie in school-related circumstances. Could it be that there is a different line between true, moralistic honesty and society-set rules? How can we use these ideas to spark a discussion among our students about the importance of both honesty and lying under certain circumstances? [caption id="attachment_1475" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="Image courtesy of Sheela Mohan"][/caption] College Basics for High School Juniors By Daniel F. Chambliss for the New York Times For high school juniors who attend a prep or elite public school, advisers are readily available to help you find the right college. For everyone else, here are the basics. The No. 1 Rule in College Basics First, you must go. Unless you have a good trade (electrician, plumber) or plan a military career, a college degree is necessary for a decent life in 21st-century America. Unfortunately, college will be very expensive. The good news, however, is that a decent college education is the best product you’ll ever buy. It never breaks. It doesn’t rot, it can’t be stolen, and it won’t burn down. It’s impervious to floods and global warming. If you sell it (and you will), you’ll still be able it to sell it over and over again. It will make you wealthier, healthier and better at solving problems. All told, an excellent purchase. Think About What You Want “It’s all about ‘good fit’ — figuring out what you want out of college, and finding the college that best fits,” said Cassie Magesis, a college counselor at Goddard Riverside Community Center. Think seriously about your goals, your strengths and your weaknesses, how you work, what support (financial and personal) you’ll need and so on. Once you know what works for you, you’re halfway there. Calculate the Costs Of course, financial “fit” is crucial. Unless your parents are wealthy or savvy savers, you’ll probably have to borrow some money. Figure out what you think college will cost — and include everything. “I can’t tell you how many kids have to drop out of CUNY, which they commute to, because they can’t afford the monthly MetroCard,” Ms. Magesis said. Check the financial aid packages available. Some of the most expensive private colleges offer lavish financial aid packages to lower-income students they want. Harvard famously charges nothing — nothing — to enrolled students with family incomes under $60,000. One more thing: Don’t borrow so much that you change your career plans and your life to pay for college. College exists to help your life, not your life to help college. Do Your Research How do you find the right school? Guidebooks, available at most libraries, can help you get a feel for different colleges, and U.S. News listings provide a rough guide for different quality of institutions. Lots of people knock the rankings, but realistically, prestige does matter. People (employers, for instance) will care where you went to college. It’s also a good idea to talk with college graduates, especially people familiar with various colleges — teachers you trust, family friends, graduates of different schools. Online programs, I should note, are not for your typical recent high school graduate. They work best for strongly motivated adults who have a clear career path or want training for specific jobs. They basically increase access by providing less college: less face time with caring teachers, less campus life with other students, less “atmosphere.” A good traditional campus with close faculty member contact is a better choice for most young people. Overall, people matter more than programs, and teachers matter more than topics. For traditional students, motivation will be the crucial factor in your college success, and some colleges are better at motivating their students. Small classes, good teachers, exciting lectures, fellow students who really want to learn: these are the factors to watch for. Find those, and you’ll get the deal of a lifetime. Sometimes, Cheating is Allowed From a University of Zurich Press Release No lying, cheating or forging parents’ signatures – school children basically want to be honest. Depending on the school situation, however, they make exceptions and adopt unconventional honesty rules. Then they are sometimes dishonest to get a better mark. Not lying is regarded as a learned and well-known rule of honesty among 14 and 15-year-olds at Zurich’s high schools. Additional theoretical moral knowledge also includes conventional rules of honesty such as not using unfair aids during school tests or forging parents’ signatures. What might seem like a duty to live up to school expectations at face value is actually a very different story beneath the surface. After all, dishonest practices are permitted for young people in certain classroom situations and with individual teachers. “In such cases, young people deem it acceptable to cheat on exams, withhold information or sign their parents’ signatures themselves,” explains Emanuela Chiapparini. The youth researcher from the University of Zurich studied the virtue “honesty” from the perspective of school children, conducting 31 in-depth interviews with high-school children aged between 14 and 15 in the Canton of Zurich. Based on the reports and accounts, she pieced together the explicit and implicit honesty rules among young people.
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